I just need to break free from this self-criticism attitude. It is very hard as I had let it defined my reality for so long,partly thanks to my upbringing.
When I was young I never felt beautiful@i always thought I'm ugly.That's because my mom always emphasized on my minus points-my nose.She kept reminding me how my nose is a shame and how unattractive I look.I always believe this until I grew up and went to secondary school.
There I met friends which to the current society standard of beauty is plain.Very very plain.Nothing flattering.Yet they couldn't care less.In fact look has never ever been an issue in their life.Never. They never think they are lesser than any other people.They are confident,and they make you feel good being around them.My perception about myself changed.
Ever since then,I learned to not swallow everything my mom said anymore.
footnote: No ugly women in this world.Only lazy ones.
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